There are many reasons why the east coast bride should consider having a getaway wedding in the Poconos, but three reasons (in my opinion) are listed below: Budget "They" say the engagement ring should be a certain percentage of the groom's income in one year, so if all etiquette applies, shouldn't your wedding be too? Where are the proportions for wedding budget? You are inviting friends and family and, for the most part, they all know who you really are so why pretend to be